When you’ve tried to hold it all together, but it’s still falling apart

RELATIONSHIP COUNSELLING FOR MEN AND THEIR PARTNERS.

Maybe the arguments are getting louder ...
or the silence is getting heavier.

Maybe your relationship feels more like a business arrangement than a partnership.

Maybe you're trying to be a good Dad, but the distance between you and your partner is growing.

Or maybe you're just tired of pretending you're fine when you're not.

Are you ready to restore harmony within your relationship, your family and yourself?

Confidential and No Pressure

From frustration to connection - Without Losing Yourself

G’day, I’m Russell Voss and I have been where you are – I’m the right bloke to see when you need help.

I’m a qualified counsellor with a focus on men’s life and relationship issues. After overcoming my own challenges in life, marriage and Fatherhood, I bring both professional skills and personal understanding to every session. Read Russell’s full story.

I work with men – especially Dads – who feel stuck in their life or relationship and want real change.

Together, we cut through the noise to find what’s really going wrong, why it’s happening, and how to find out what’s not working.

You’ll get practical tools you can start using straight away to communicate better, reduce conflict and rebuild connection with your partner and family.

If you’re ready to stop going in circles and want a clear, no-nonsense way to get your life and relationship back on track, you’re in the right place.

You don’t have to figure this out alone. Whether you want to save your marriage, improve communication, or reconnect with your family, change starts with a conversation.

Online sessions available Australia wide with weekend and evening options.

How relationship counselling works - The Russell Voss approach

We set up a confidential, judgement free space where you can:

Understand the root causes of your relationship struggles
Learn practical communication tools that actually work
Reconnect with your partner and children
Build a stronger, healther relationship

What you’re up against:

Anger, abuse and blame
Communication breakdown
Grief and trauma
Anxiety
Differing opinions around family planning
Loss of trust and infidelity
Poor boundaries
Lack of purpose or direction

What’s possible when things change:

Feel lighter and more energised
Communicate clearly and reduce conflict
Rebuild trust and connection
Take control through forgiveness
Gain renewed hope and direction
Strengthen your sense of purpose
Boost self-esteem
Create a more positive family environment

MY SERVICES.

Mentoring

tailored to you.

Working with me, we will identify the things you want to change in your relationships, identify the trigger or root cause and remove or dissolve these for good.

Whatever you want to conquer, we will work together to help you to rediscover love and happiness ‘within’ Self and your relationship.

I know the feeling of endlessly walking on eggshells in a relationship.

I’ll show you how to set boundaries, get your life back on track and create habits, routines and powerful techniques that you can use every day and for the rest of your life.

Many men worry counselling will just be endless talking. I make sure every session gives you tools you can actually use – not just theories.

know the feeling of endlessly walking on eggshells in a relationship. I’ll show you how to set boundaries, get your life back on track and create habits, routines and powerful techniques that you can use every day and for the rest of your life.

Many men worry counselling will just be endless talking. I make sure every session gives you tools you can actually use — not just theories.

My Life Transformational Mentoring

Relationships don’t come with an instruction manual and they can throw a lot at you. It’s normal to have life challenges, everyone has them, and there is absolutely no shame in asking for help, it’s actually the SMART thing to do. Working together in approx. 90min sessions, I will discuss what is happening for you, provide valuable education and utilise processes and will help you achieve your outcomes.

This type of therapy addresses relationship challenges, such as:

anger, abuse, blame and forgiveness
communication breakdown
grief and trauma
anxiety
differing opinions around family planning
lack of purpose or direction in the relationship
loss of trust and infidelity
poor boundaries

This kind of support & mentoring can help you:

feel uplifted, lighter and happier
feel healthier and energised
gain new hope and direction for your relationship
able to forgive and move forward
gain renewed purpose and raised self-esteem

Added benefits from the dedication and time you put in, could also result in the ceasing of addictions, weight loss, improved extended family relationships, career advancements, Spiritual development, personal development and the list goes on and on. It really IS, the smart thing to engage in.

IF I CAN DO IT…SO CAN YOU!

How do sessions work?

I offer in-person ZOOM sessions that are accessible on your computer, phone, tablet or ipad, whatever is suited to your needs. Each session runs for approx. 90 minutes. Session fees are dependant on your needs. Sessions the extend over 120 minutes will be classed as a double session and invoiced accordingly.

See FAQs for more info.

Who can I help?

My services are open to anyone who has pain, negative behaviours and challenges they would like to overcome but mostly, the people I help, are 35+yo men, who have children and in a relationship with a partner that is spiralling down and heading for divorce or separation.

Have further

questions.

Visit the FAQs page for more information about relationship mentoring with Russell Voss and how it can help you.

Testimonials

What Clients Say ...

Russ truly has inspired us during our relationship counseling. I couldn’t recommend him enough! Our relationship has blossomed since our first session with Russ & our personal growth journeys have also flourished. Russ is incredibly patient, gentle & honest all at the same time, allowing both partners to feel seen, heard & valued during our sessions. 10/10.

My life had hit a rough spot, with your guidance and support, I was able to find the good in myself again. Helped me gain confidence in myself and find the individual/father/husband I truly am. All the information given was very clear and easy to understand. The way you spoke and your body language made me feel very comfortable from the start, helped me open up. I now have a different perspective on life and will never forget the great experience I had with you and will share what I learnt with my family and others. Thank you

Thank you for assisting my wife and I. It was a pleasure understanding your guidance, and implemented your techniques. I am now less stressed and approach problems with an open mind. My daily group walks are now positive and inspiring experiences.

Work and home duties are more enjoyable, and even our children have changed their ways of life and communication with us. My wife and I have used your strategies, to allow us ‘date time’, which is a new and wonderful experience for us and has enabled me to spend more time with our children.

Your techniques have improved my relationships with everyone around me, bringing more laughter and stronger bonds and has helped me to clear my thoughts and see problems from different perspectives for better outcomes.

Your sessions have paved the way for a clearer and easier path in our journey together. Thank you for all your time and wisdom. I hope to meet you again someday. Thanks again.

Russell assisted us get our lives back on track, not just with our marriage, but the relationship with ourselves and the people around us. Gave us a different perspective of life and a different approach to facing our difficulties and managing our stress and communication with our loved ones.

Thank you Russell for the invaluable gift you have given us. We will be forever grateful for your assistance. I highly recommend him 🙂

Amazing gentleman. honestly don’t have enough words to describe how gentle and knowledgeable this man is. It really helps when the partner is anxious to start therapy.

Russ was absolutely amazing. He’s helping me though my break up with my husband of 14 years. He’s given me some good tools to use to help me through the hard times. I’m very grateful Russ contacted me. I’ve been putting a positive outlook on life going forwards being a single parent. Thankyou!

Russ is an exceptional individual who has had a profound impact on my life and mindset in numerous ways. He has served not only as a relationship counsellor but also as a mentor, inspiring me to strive for personal growth and self-improvement. Initially seeking Russ's guidance during a challenging period in my relationship, I never anticipated the extent to which he would positively influence our lives. Russ's guidance has transcended mere counselling, offering invaluable insights that have helped us navigate our emotions, actions, and relationships with others. Since welcoming Russ into our journey through parenthood and self-discovery, our lives have significantly improved. We are immensely grateful for the blessing of having Russ by our side. His personalised advice, unwavering support, and genuine interest in our well-being have been instrumental in our growth as individuals and partners. We eagerly anticipate continuing our journey with Russ as our counsellor and mentor, knowing that our relationship has never been stronger. Thank you, Russ, for everything you do!